About Trainers

Hi all.  After my workout with my current trainer yesterday I got to thinking about all the trainers I've had over the past 7 years.  

The first one was perfect for me.  Tough but flexible.  I have a long medical history (spina bifida) and I needed a trainer who would make me work hard, but within my abilities.  He was spot on.   I actually cried when he said he was leaving after about a year and a half of working with him.  I still talk to him occasionally at the gym when he's there to work out.  My next trainer was totally opposite.  He treated me like I was fragile.  I'm NOT fragile.  I may have certain limitations as far as flexibility and balance go, but that doesn't mean trainers aren't able to kick my butt.  I hardly even broke a sweat when I worked with him.  Huge disappointment.  I only worked with him a short time before I switched again.  He wasn't too happy, but I didn't care.  I was paying for personal training, not to be treated like a cripple.

Well, the next trainer was, again, the total opposite.  He kicked my butt but good and I loved it.  I had a good sweat going within the first 2 minutes of the session!  I loved working with him.  It was when I was training with him that I decided to get my personal training certification.  He took time to quiz me on various topics, which I appreciated, even if some of those quizzes  took place while he was kicking my butt during our sessions.  Seriously, I had a blast.  And I passed my exam, too.  :-)  That's got to be one of the biggest thrills of my life.  I was bummed when I found out this trainer, too, was leaving.  

All the trainers after that were okay, but just not quite right.  They either worked me too easy, didn't show up on time or at all, or seemed more interested in training athletes.  They were professional and kind, no question.  But they didn't seem to be as into the sessions.  Or I just didn't feel as comfortable with them, except maybe one who used to count my reps in Chinese.  He was tough, fair, and funny.  A good combination.  

One trainer was okay, pleasant, and tough, but seemed to key on athletes.  He left after training me a short time. I've seen him now and then, but we haven't spoken. Ah well.  It's no big deal.  I just didn't click with him as much as I did with others.

Anyway, I decided to call it quits at the gym in September 2012.  I wasn't getting anywhere, I wasn't satisfied with the training, I was still stewing over my workout folder with two year's worth of workouts disappearing, I had endless contract and double-billing problems, I had hit menopause a couple years earlier and my mind and body were not anywhere near in sync.  I had no will power, no energy..I was tired of working out.  And I admit that I was none too pleased that I had applied for a trainer position three times and hadn't gotten so much as an interview, yet new trainers came and went all the time. (When I went in one day to update my application, the new training manager found it at the bottom of the pile.  Well, at least they hadn't pitched it.  The former management was supportive of me and encouraged me to apply, but there was a management change at the same time I first applied.) 

I got equipment so I could work out at home.  But there wasn't enough space, the room temperature was too difficult to control, and I missed the energy of the gym.  I had gained back weight, had intense cravings, and was scared that if I didn't do something soon, I'd weigh more than I did the first time I started working out 7 years before--and be on a very bad path heading into my fifties.  

So, after about a year and a half away, I went back--to the same gym.  As miffed as I was over some issues, I still liked the convenient location, the set up, and the price.  It was doable.  I had a talk with the management about the fact that if I experienced anymore BS, I was out the door and would never come back, no matter how convenient and economical the gym was.  They have been nothing but courteous and professional towards me.  So far, so good.  I like my current trainer.  He says hello to me each time I go to the gym and asks me about my workouts whether we have a session that day or not. He was understanding from the beginning that I wanted to take it easy.  I especially was nervous since I had hurt my shoulder recently (for the third time, at least). How I hurt it this time, I didn't know.  Well, after one session of mostly physical-therapy-type exercises on my shoulders, I had no pain whatsoever.  Yep, he's a keeper!  I'm feeling stronger every day, and upping weight consistently now that I've got my confidence back.  And I'm working out 4-5 days a week again.  I'm loving it.  

All these trainers have helped shape me as a trainer.  I've learned from each of they what to do and what not to do.  I make clients work, but I'm sensitive to their health issues and exercise 
preferences.  I'm down to earth, no ego, no attitude.  I'm in business to help people feel better, healthier, fitter.  And, of course, I'm all for helping to make fitness fun.  

When looking into working with a trainer, decide what type of personality with jive best with yours, whether you want to work with a male or female, which trainer can best work around your schedule, and who can help you best toward your goals.  It's a good idea to work with one trainer for a bit, then switch to another, and another until you find the one you feel most comfortable with.  You're paying good money for personal training.  You are the boss.  You need to feel you're getting your money's worth. 

I'd love to hear your feedback.  What type of trainer do you like the most?  Or do you prefer to work out alone or with friends?  Feel free to email me at iwrite41@yahoo.com, or leave a comment below.  Also, to get email notices when a new post is published, enter your email in the space provided and click Submit.  Thanks!  Hope to hear from you.  Take care.
   

Ease into a Healthy Lifestyle

Life is a balancing act

Happy Friday everyone!  I hope you have plans to stay active this weekend.  Or maybe you still aren't convinced that an active, healthy lifestyle is doable in your situation.

You hear all these stories about people living at the gym, making fitness a lifestyle.  Meanwhile, you're swamped with responsibilities, managing health issues, working long hours, taking care of your family, and so on.  When will you ever fit in a workout?  How can you possibly afford healthy food?

Sound familiar?  Well, it doesn't have to be like that.  You don't have to live at the gym.  You don't even have go to a gym.  You can work out at home, outside, with a friend, on your own, in a group, or, yes, at the gym.  Pick something fun.  Walk the dog, garden, play tag with the kids, swim, job, hike, bike, play tennis.  Whatever activity you enjoy doing or would like to take a crack at, do it.  It doesn't have to cost a cent.  It just depends on what you want to do.  

Give yourself 30 minutes a day to exercise.  That's the equivalent of one sit-com.  If you can give up one sitcom a day (or record it to watch later), you will have enough time to get your workout in.  If that still seems too hard, break your exercise up into three 10-minute bouts throughout the day.  Take a walk outside or down the hall, walk up and down the stairs a few times, do some stretches or jumping jacks.  Anything to get your blood flowing and your heart pumping.  That doesn't sound so hard, does it?

It just takes a little effort to get into the groove; make exercise a habit.  Make a point to include little bouts of exercise each day.  Set a timer or enter a reminder on your phone or daily planner.  Do whatever works to help you make exercise a habit.  Over time, you may very well notice that you have more energy, feel better, sleep better, and many other benefits, and that can help motivate you to keep exercising.

Same goes for the lifestyle change.  It doesn't have to happen overnight.  Make a couple changes here and there.  If you smoke, attempt to quit.  If you have trouble doing it on your own, seek out help from your doctor or a support group.  If you drink alcohol on a regular basis, try cutting out one drink per week at first.  If you're a night owl, try going to bed a half hour early one night a week.  If the thought of eating vegetables makes you turn green, start slowly.  Just add one new veggie and see how it goes.  Find fun ways to prepare it online.  Do that with fruits, lean meats, whole grains and healthier fats as well.  Look for sales on healthy items.  Cut back on designer coffees and junk food, putting that money toward healthier food items.  Ease into it.  Experiment with different recipes.  Make it fun.  If you find that you don't like fish, try turkey.  If you don't like one vegetable, try another.  There are oodles of them out there to choose from.  Add herbs and spices to jazz up these new foods instead of loading them with fat, salt and sugar. 

Working out and adopting a healthy lifestyle don't have to be difficult.  Take your time.  Adopt a positive attitude.  Be patient.  Think of it as an adventure.  You'll get there.

Keeping Up with Your Exercise During Wintry Weather

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Hey there, folks.  I hope you had a good weekend.  Lots of places are snowy right now, so it might be hard for you to get out and about to exercise.  But you can make a snowman or snow fort, have a snowball fight and the like to burn calories.  Once the roads clear out, or even beforehand if you have some land, you can go skiing, skating, snowshoeing, and sledding right out the back door.  

Where I live is sunny and quite mild in comparison to the areas of the country being hit by snowstorms, so my husband and I did some yard work over the weekend.  We put some muscle into trimming trees and bushes for a few hours in the afternoon.  It felt so nice to be out in the fresh air.  It was still a bit chilly, but we worked up a bit of a sweat during the clean up.  

I'm anxious for the days to get even longer so we can go for walks later in the day.  By the time we finish work, there isn't much daylight left, and I don't like to walk in the dark.  Especially not when it's chilly.

Whatever the climate or weather conditions, find something active to do.  Don't wait for the perfect conditions for a particular activity like running, walking, skiing or snowboarding.  Do something else in the meantime instead of hanging out on the couch watching TV.   If you're snowed in, walk in place, use the treadmill that's gathering dust in the basement, dance around the house, play charades...anything that gets your heart pumping.  If you can safely navigate the roads, hit the slopes, hiking trails, or the gym.  The important things is to keep moving, while also staying safe.

Take care out there!  Feel free to sign up for email updates and also visit my website Making Fitness Fun for all sorts of information on fitness.  Have fun!