Flying Safety: Remember to Move!

I have done my share of air travel and I'm amazed at how many people stay in their seats for the duration of the flight.  No bathroom break, not stretching, nothing.  All they do is sleep, read, or tap, tap, tap away on their computers.  Up until 2003 I probably wouldn't have noticed as much.  That was the year my husband Jim fell off a ladder (actually, it broke in two while he was on it) and landed facedown on the concrete walkway in front of our house.  Doctors didn't think he'd survive, but he did.  He's basically fine, but does have his share of negative effects from it, including partial hearing loss and a blood clot in his leg.

Long plane rides are prime breeding grounds for blood clots because of the extended sitting involved and the cramped seating arrangements.  I'm short, and on some flights I even feel cramped and wish for more leg room.  That's bad!  They should yank out at least a row of seats on each side of the aisle to give us more wiggle room--for comfort and safety.  

Most recently, on a cross country trip to visit my mother in New York, hardly anyone got up.  I made Jim get up at least once every hour on this nearly 5-hour flight. I did the same.  Plus, I wiggled my toes and stomped my feet while I was sitting.  

On flights where Jim and I can't sit together, I stare at the back of his head from afar trying to remind him to get up.  If that doesn't work, I get out of my seat, go over, poke him, and say, "Get up already!"  This is no laughing matter.  He's had blood clots before.  He knows it's serious and I doubt he'd want to go through that ordeal again.  So it's worth it for him to tear himself away from the magazine he's reading, excuse himself to his seatmates, get up and move. 

Something else I noticed on this latest flight:  the flight attendants didn't have the passengers go through their group stretching session until about 20 minutes before the plane was due to land!  That's crazy!  It should be done at least halfway through the flight, if not once an hour.

Next time you fly, remember:

• Stretch at least every hour 
• Get up and walk at least once an hour, or as much as you can (I know, turbulence can hamper this)
• Take bathroom breaks whether you need to go or not. (Again, turbulence messes with this sometimes)
• Wiggle your toes
• Rotate your ankles.  
• Flex your feet up, down, left, right and hold for 10 seconds each time.
• Stomp your feet on the floor.
• Roll your shoulders up and back
• Bring your ears to your shoulders 
• Rotate and hold your head for 10 seconds to one side then the other, slowly.

Check out this link from the University of Maryland Medical Center about Deep Venous Thrombosis.  http://umm.edu/health/medical/ency/articles/deep-venous-thrombosis

Safe travels!

Chicken Bulgur Salad

Hi!  I hope you're having a great day.  I based this recipe on one I found in the Taste of Home Healthy Cooking Cookbook.  The two things I didn't include from the original were onion and turkey.  I used chicken breast for the meat.

Prep Time:  25 minutes (if you use pre-cooked chicken.  I had to cook mine, so that added about an hour to the time)

Servings:  6

Ingredients:

• 1 1/2 cups reduced sodium chicken broth
• 1/2 cup water
• 1 cup blugur
• 2 cups cubed cooked chicken breast
• 1 small cucumber, chopped
• 1 cup parbonzo beans, rinsed and drained
• 3 green onions, sliced
• 1/4 cup sliced ripe olives
• 3 tablespoons dried cranberries
• 1/4 cup olive oil
• 3 tablespoons lime juice
• 2 tablespoons thawed cranberry juice concentrate (I used light cranberry juice)
• 1 cup cherry tomatoes, cut in half
• 3 tablespoons minced fresh parsley (I used parsley flakes because that's what I had on hand)

Putting it All Together:

• Bring broth and water to a boil in a small saucepan.
• Cook bulgar as directed on the package,drain it, then put it in a large bowl.
• Add the broth mixture and let it sit, covered, for 30 minutes or until most of the liquid is absorbed.
• Drain the remaining liquid off.
• Add chicken, cucumber, beans, onions, olives, and cranberries, and mix well.
• Whisk oil, lime juice and cranbeery juice together in a small bowl.  
• Stir this mixture into the bulgur mixture.
• Add the tomatoes and parsley and toss to coat thoroughly.
• You can serve this salad at room temperature or cold.

Nutrition:  1 1/2 cups equals 302 calories.  11 g fat (2 sat. fat), 40 mg cholesterol, 283 mg sodium, 32 g carbs, 7 g fiber, 20 g protein.

Enjoy!  Let me know what you think of it.  

How to Get Out of an Exercise Funk

Getting into an exercise funk is no fun.  I've been there.  I love being fit, but there have been times when I just didn't feel motivated to work out.  There have also been dark periods when I didn't even want to think about fitness.  I blame that on menopause.  I can't imagine any other reason for me to fall out of love with fitness. 

Luckily, I've always been able to get out of a funk. Because you can't stay in it forever.  It's nonproductive, feels yucky, and the longer you stay in it the harder it will be to get back on track. Here are some things that have helped me to snap out of it.  Use what works, chuck out the rest.  The important thing is that you get moving again.  

1.  Ask Yourself What the Problem Is:  You can't fix something if you don't know what's wrong.  What's the root of your funk?  Did someone make fun of you at the gym?  Are you overwhelmed by the terminology that your trainer is throwing at you?  Dig deep to find out what is causing this lack of motivation, fuzzy-headedness, blah feeling--whatever your funk encompasses.

2.  Go About Trying to Solve the Problem:  Write down the problem and what you may be able to do to solve it.  Say it's that people make fun of you at the gym.  Let the gym manager know what's going on.  He or she may approach the bullies, get their story, and tell them to stop or risk being kicked out.  Each gym has its own policies regarding such matters, but I would think that most gyms would have a zero tolerance policy as far as harrassment goes.

3.  Revise Your Goals:  Revising your goals can help re-energize you and smash those barriers.  Don't try to be a hot shot athlete if it's not in you.  Shoot for losing 1 pound, 5 pounds, or even 10 lbs.  Or you could set a goal to run a mile, then work your way up to a 5K.  Similarly, set a goal to increase the weight you lift by 2 lbs. or up your reps by 5 (or by just 1; come on, one rep, you can do it.) in a week or so--whatever feels right for you. Challenge yourself to help put the fun back in your workout.  Don't expect to be able to start back at your previous fitness level if you have been away from fitness for more than a couple weeks.  Start back slowly; work back up to your previous level and then shoot for more.

4. Choose Activities You Enjoy:  What do you like to do?  Play cards, play Yahzee, garden, walk, play tennis?  Great, do it!  Okay, so playing cards and Yahtzee aren't exactly the most acitive pasttimes, but you could work them into your program.  Never mind that they aren't the usual exercise choices.  Maybe that's the problem.  You may need to shake things up; become creative when designing workouts to put the zip back into your program.  For instance, you may enjoy picking a card from a deck before each exercise in your program. The number can represent the number of reps, while the suit can represent the sets.  

5. Manage Stress:  If you're feeling pressured about things in your daily life including family matters, community obligations, bills, and so on, your workout could suffer.  It can put a dent in your enthusiasm and time for exercise.  But keep in mind that exercise can actually help relieve stress, so make sure you take time to fit in fitness.  Make time for yourself.  Consider meditating, getting more sleep, or talking to a close friend or family member to get things off your chest.  If that's not enough, consult a financial advisor, your doctor, or other professionals for more expert advice.

6.  Don't Over-Think Things:  This happened to me.  The more I learned about fitness, the more confused I got. I felt like I had to work out  a certain way, design programs a certain way, go by the book.  Then I heard from a trainer that I admired that she made her own programs specific to the clients' needs, not by instructions in a book.  Yes, we need to learn theory, anatomy, physiology, programming, etc., when studying to be certified personal trainers, but we also have to loosen up a bit and go with our guts,  and a client's preferences and fitness level rather than a textbook when deciding what's best for a client. It's similar to what doctors have said about me regarding my history of spina bifida:  "You're not 'textbook'." When it comes to training, I don't think of anyone as textbook.  All clients have individual needs.  When I stopped over-thinking and started concentrating on the exercises I liked to do and had fun with, I felt much better.  Workouts were fun again.

7.  Leave Work at Work:  If you've got a lot on your plate at work it may be hard to let it go and concentrate on your workout, but you need to.  Workouts are great for helping you relax and keep your mind off work.  Don't fight that.  You need this facet of your life to help you decompress. Don't stew about work issues.  Clear your mind, relax, have fun.

8.  Think Positively:  No matter what is going wrong there are probably a lot of things going right, too.  Take a moment to realize that.  Each night before you go to bed, make sure to write down three positive things that happened that day.  Remember to include any fitness time you managed to squeeze in and if you grabbed a healthy snack instead of caving in and having that sugary soft drink or donut.  Think of how it felt when you were at the top of your program, kickin' butt at the gym.  You did it then; you can do it again.  Focus on your strengths and build on them. Then tackle your weaknesses.

9.  Concentrate on the Present:  So, you messed up that workout; you missed a jogging date with your best friend.  It's done.  It's over.  Leave it behind.  A good way to put it behind you is to start over.  Concentrate on the present.  Try that exercise you goofed up on again.  Take it slow.  Master it.  Call your friend to set up another jogging date and make sure to arrive early.  Don't let the past control you; rather, control your present.

10.  Stick to a Schedule:  You have a better chance of making your workouts if you schedule them into your  day.  Working out early in the morning is great.  You get it in before the day gets crazy.  But I can't seem to exercise in the morning.  I get up early for work as it is, so getting up earlier to fit in exercise just doesn't cut it.  So, I usually have to wait until the afternoon.  One time of the day I hate working out is in the evening.  I'm too tired, plus I don't know anyone who goes to the gym at that time.  Do cardio most days of the week and weight training at least two days per week.  And allow for rest intervals during your workout as well as on off days to help your body recover.  Overtraining increases the risk of injury, so, yes, challenge yourself, but don't go overboard.

11.  Accept Off Days:  Maybe you're having an off day, but that doesn't mean you have to turn it into a full-blown funk.  Use these to re-energize yourself rather than kick yourself down. Come back more determined than ever to better your technique, increase your sets or reps, and up the weight your lift.

How I Lost Focus on Fitness and Got It Back

Fitness is fun.  It can be.  Honest!  But there was a time when I couldn't seem to find the fun in it.  Actually, for the last four years I've faltered.  There have been times when I've gone for long walks with my husband nearly every night and hit 10,000 steps--sometimes more--daily but weight training fell by the wayside.  Then both fell off pretty much completely except for occasional hikes with my husband or walks with friends.  The reasons?  Here's what I think happened.

Got Certified:  I enjoyed fitness so much that I decided to get certified as a personal trainer myself.  I loved the NASM course.  It challenged me.  There was a good bit of anatomy and physiology in the course work, and some chemistry, none of which I had taken before.  I had to work my butt off, and I loved it.  My trainer encouraged me and quizzed me.  Others at the gym were supportive as well.  I passed the test on the first try.  I was thrilled.  Then it came to applying for trainer jobs and...nothing.  Well, not nothing exactly.  I did get a couple interviews.  But I didn't even apply until months after I passed my test because I wanted to wait until after we got back from visiting my mom.  What was that all about?  My brain function was a tad low at the time.  That's the only reason I can think of for why I'd wait so long to apply.  And it may have cost me a job.  I knew a training manager who was enthusiastic and I was pretty sure he'd at least give me a chance to prove myself as a trainer.  Well, by the time I applied he had moved on to different position in another city.  I never got the chance to find out for sure.  I got frustrated.  I had a well-respected certification but no one would hire me.  Was I too old?  Was it because I didn't have experience?  Was it because I walked funny?  Or was I too chunky?  I didn't know.

Trainers Left:  One by one, the trainers who worked at the gym when I first joined left.  I didn't click as well with the new crew.  Some were okay, and all my trainers were decent over the years, but that first crew just couldn't be beat.  Every one of them were friendly and supportive.  I felt at home at the gym when they were  working there.  I felt like I belonged.  But when they left, I got so I was less confident in my abilities, and I no longer felt at home at the gym.  Workouts suffered.  I stopped training with a trainer.  I didn't have any close friends there and knew only a few people by name.  Contract troubles cropped up as well. It all contributed to my decision to stop going to the gym altogether after a 5-year membership.  

Menopause Hit:  When menopause hit, hall hell broke loose.  If it was edible, I ate it.  I could tell myself that it wasn't good for me or that I shouldn't eat so much, but I kept on eating anyway.  My motivation tanked so I stopped exercising for the most part.  I got a bunch of equipment that I could use at home to exercise, thinking that would motivate me to get going again, but I didn't use it much.  My energy level was at rock bottom.  I started gaining the weight back that I'd lost through all that hard work.  And I was furious with myself for doing it.   

Work Increased:  Good things started happening in regards to work around the time I left the gym.  I found myself with three jobs online, all related to fitness and nutrition, including one working for that training manager I spoke about earlier who I thought may have hired me if given the chance.  Well, my hunch was right after all.  :-)    Wow!  I was psyched, but I also was sitting most of the day as everything I did involved computer work.  Since I enjoyed the work, I would sit there for hours researching, writing, answering people's questions, etc.  This inactivity just exacerbated the problem.  But I still loved the work and that I was making more money than I had in quite some time.  Considering my husband had been switched to part-time during this period, my increased work was welcome by us both.  I just hated that I was so inactive and didn't have as much time to exercise.  The thought of exercise just brought me down because I couldn't figure out how I was going to fit it into my schedule.  This made me anxious, which made me eat more.  I find it amazing that I didn't gain 100 lbs. during this time. 

Busy Social Life:  Around the time I started faltering a bit fitness-wise, my husband and I started volunteering--a lot.  We helped out at area animal shelters, charity events, and sporting events.  We had a blast doing it, and most of the time it involved physical movement, so that was great.  But it left little time to actually do a full blown tough workout. We also met more people through our volunteer experiences, so that widened our social circle.  We have more friends now than we've ever had, I think.  It's great.  We get together for football-watch parties, birthdays, holidays, walking, community events.  It's fun.  But it means also that I've had to totally re-work my life.  I used to spend most of my time alone so I just did what I needed to do, whenever.  Well, now with all sorts of commitments, my way of doing things had to change.  How people with a full-time job, friends, community obligations, children and grandchildren do it is beyond me.  I've got it pretty easy in comparison, working at home, but I still find it hard to fit all the responsibilities of life in.  I welcome the challenge, but it did cause workouts to fall by the wayside.  I'm working on that.

Death in the Family:  When my husband's mother passed away late last year, everything kind of stopped.  The nearly daily walks, weekend hikes, volunteering.  We stopped moving, it seemed.  Of course, death is something that has to be worked through.  We need to take the time to mourn and heal.  I understood that.  He needs to take time to explore emotions, reminisce, and work through the stages of grief.  He's doing well, but we still aren't back to volunteering.  It makes sense, though.  I read once that you can't help others until you help yourself through your own issues, troubles, feeling.  This is our time to heal.  There will be plenty of opportunities to be the helper again, in time.  

The Time is Now:  I started back at the gym at the beginning of the year.  I'm working with a trainer again.  I can't say that my progress has been as significant as it was 7 years ago when I first stepped into the gym, but I'm regaining my strength and then some.  For example, when I left the gym I could shoulder press 20-lb. dumbbells, and now 5 months back I'm close to surpassing that personal record.  I used to spend most days of the week at the gym and my workouts took about 2 hours.  I don't have that kind of time anymore.  But I know I don't have to work out for hours each day to be fit.  Everything adds up.  I have learned to fit in fitness where I can.  Weight loss is so hard during menopause, so I'm not going to freak out about that either.  I rarely weigh myself anymore.  As long as I'm moving, exercising, eating healthy, and trying not to eat everything in sight, I'll be satisfied.

Does this sound familiar?  I understand life getting in the way of fitness, believe me.  But it doesn't have to erect a total blockade between you and your fitness routine.  Don't freak out over fitness.  That will only make things worse.  Plan little bouts of fitness in between work and other tasks.  Do as much moving at work as possible.  At least it's something.  Realize you're doing what you can.  You can't put your life on hold for fitness, but you also shouldn't put fitness on hold because of life either.  It's important to find a balance.  And make fitness fun, not a chore.  Think of how good you'll feel when your clothes become looser and your step a little lighter.  It's worth it.  

Let me know what you have done to fit in fitness.  Email me at iwrite41@yahoo.com.  I'd love to hear from you.  Take  care.

Fitness Trends: Do What's Fun and What Works for You

The other day, I saw an article on 2014 Fitness Trends that was posted on US News and World Reports' website in January.  First, let me say I have never been one to follow trends.  I march to my own drum beat.  Here's my take on some of their choices.

The In Crowd

Body Weight Exercise:  I love it!  This makes exercising so much more appealing to those who think they have to go out and buy all sorts of expensive exercise equipment in order to get fit.  All you need is your body and maybe a chair or bench of some sort, and you're good to go.  My favorite body weight exercise is the push up, but burpees are a close second.

Functional Fitness:  Another keeper, this type of exercise mimics everyday movements.  If you're having trouble stepping up onto a curb, then step ups would be part of your program.  If you have a hard time carrying groceries from the store without help, then strength training exercises for your arms would be part of your program.  This type of fitness program incorporates exercises that help improve flexibility and balance to help prevent falls and thus the potential injuries that could result from those falls.

Exercise Programs for Older Adults:  Excellent.  This population is growing with the baby boomer generation heading into retirement.  It's important to help older folks remain healthy and active.  I'm fortunate to live in a community where there are many activities available to seniors, from golf and pickleball, to senior sports competitions, and a ton of walking and biking trails.  And the locals take advantage of these offerings.  There's no reason why older folks shouldn't stay active.  In fact, it's highly recommended.   And the fitness industry is standing up and taking notice with senior-focused classes such as Silver Sneakers, a program that helps seniors manage their health, and improve strength, balance, and endurance.  Yay!  Rockin' into twilight years in a rockin' chair?  Heck no!  These folks are ROCKIN'!

Children's Exercise Programs:  I just don't get why there can be sports in school but not physical education classes.  When I was in school, I was exempt for physical education class.  It makes me dizzy to think of that now, but I put up with it at the time.  I used a wheel chair on and off until I was 16 years old, and they didn't have special P.E. classes for kids in wheelchairs, so I would just go to the gym, sit on the sidelines, and invariably get smacked by flying balls and out-of-control kids.   Finally, I told my parents I'd had enough, so they got me exempt.  Heck, they could have assigned another kid in the class to play pitch and catch with me at the other end of the gym or put me in a room with a radio and had me dance from the waist up, but no, I was exempt instead.  Crazy! Everyone can benefit from gym class, but a significantly fewer number of kids make it onto a team.  I say relegate sports to community-based programs and bring back gym class to schools.  I do think that personal trainers bringing their knowledge of youth fitness to schools is a good idea as well, but I'd rather see all kids benefit, not just the most needy or the most fit.  

High Intensity Interval Training:  I've heard a lot of negativity surrounding HIIT, but I've never done more than, say, 3-5 minutes on the elliptical at regular pace mixed with 1-minute faster intervals.  Nothing fancy; nothing radical.  I always watch my heart rate and perceived exertion so I don't overdo it.  I don't like anything that's over the top.  Challenge yourself, yes.  But don't go so hog-wild that you risk injury.  It's just not worth it.  Unless you are in top shape, stick to moderate exercise.  You can also mix it up with vigorous exercise now and then, but just listen to your body and let it tell you when to back off.

Group Fitness Training:  I've never participated in group training or led a fitness group.  I've never been a group person as far as exercise or hiking or site-seeing tours go.  I like one-on-one instruction and conversations.  Although I've been tempted to join aerobic classes at the gym, I prefer to exercise either by myself or with one other person, such as my husband, my mother or a friend, because I do have balance issues related to spina bifida, and I figure I wouldn't be able to do most of the intricate moves required.  That said, I have noticed people located in the back of Zumba or kickboxing classes barely moving to the beat, so I guess I shouldn't be hesitant about joining in myself.  The most important thing is to move--get the heart pumping, do what I can, focus on safety, and have fun.  Maybe I'll try a class one day.  I certainly can see the benefits of group fitness--accountability, economy, and socialization.

And You'rrrrre Out!

I'm kind of surprised by the choices for goners. I love using a stability ball in my workouts.  I was afraid of it when I first attempted to use it years ago, but after a few wipe outs I nailed it and fell in love with it.  So, it's a bummer that it's falling out of favor.  Seems like it is versatile enough to have staying power.  I've used the stability ball to do exercises for every major muscle group.  One of my favorite stability ball exercises is one where I lie face up on the ball and toss a medicine ball back and forth with arms extended upward.  It's freaky at first.  I thought I was going to smack myself in the face with the medicine ball a few times, but after a short time of experimenting with it, I started to enjoy the exercise.  It's a challenge, for sure, but I like challenges.  So, I'll keep using the stability ball, because it provides me with a fun and varied workout.

As for Zumba, spinning and Pilates being out, well, that surprises me as well.  I've never tried any of them, but they look as if they'd be varied and enjoyable on top of providing an awesome workout.  I love to dance, so Zumba looks very inviting, and I've heard people rave about how fun it is.  Spinning, well I can see how maybe it would get tiresome after awhile if the instructor isn't very good at coming up with creative and motivating ideas for class.  Using a stationary bike isn't nearly as fun as riding the real thing outside in the sunshine and fresh air.  The pulsing music and generated scenery can only help so much when the activity doesn't change that much.  But again, I've heard from people who love it.  I don't know much about Pilates other than that it can be used as a method of strength training so I don't feel as if I can comment on it much here.  

My advice is to forget about trends and fads.  Whether they're "in" or "out," give some of these and other forms of exercise a try.  See what you think.  Go with what is fun and brings you the results you're looking for, and pitch aside what doesn't work.  Always make fitness fun and safe.   

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Choosing a Different Life vs. Being Satisfied and How it Relates to Fitness

I saw the quote above the other day.  On the whole, it makes sense.  We tend to get stressed out about work, school, money, our bodies, health, being in style and so on, sometimes to the point of sickness.  We are so busy we often don't have time for friends, family, downtime.  It's not worth all that.  In that case, I say, yes chill out.  Tone down the stress level a bit by finding a balance, seeing where you can make little changes, and slicing some "fat" out of your day to make it more manageable.  

Choosing a different life vs. being satisfied with what you have.  

Different Life:  On the plus side, a different life or lifestyle can recharge your batteries.  It also can present new and exciting challenges and experiences.  You may be able to meet new people, be introduced to cultures different from your own, and learn something new.  All good things, for sure.  But there's a minus side too.  If you decide to pick up stakes, move far away, and start over, it could cost you a dear sum of money as well as heartache and headaches when you have to say goodbye to close friends and family and everything familiar.  It can also be intimidating, moving to a new town, starting a new job, making new friends.  And lonely, too, as you struggle to make those friends in your new surroundings while realizing as time goes by that you've become distant in more ways than one with the folks back home.  You're on the outside looking in in both places.  That can be scary, too.

Being Satisfied:  The good thing about being satisfied is that you don't have to deal with all the upheaval that comes with change.  It's comfortable, safe.  It's sometimes easier to settle.  It also forces you to appreciate what you have and enjoy the simple life.  But being satisfied can also be limiting.  You may live your life in your little corner of the world, sheltered from anything different or challenging, missing out on what's going on "out there."  You may run the risk of becoming stagnant, unfulfilled, bored.

How  it relates to fitness

Is being satisfied with your current fitness level really healthy? If you're obese or overweight you could be increasing your risk for developing health problems such as coronary heart disease, type 2 diabetes and stroke. If you're underweight you also could be at risk for certain health problems such as anemia, compromised immunity, and osteoporosis.  Is it worth the risk just to stay where you are?  Wouldn't it be better to tackle the hard but rewarding work that's involved in living fit and healthy?  Only you can answer that.

A different lifestyle could be just what you need to improve your health and mood.  So, while you shouldn't degrade yourself for being overweight/obese or underweight, you really need to evaluate how your current life is and if you're happy and healthy that way.  If not, then you need to take steps to change, including getting a complete physical exam and nutrition consultation a from qualified professionals.  You may also ask your doctor for exercise recommendations, any limitations you need to be aware of, and if you could benefit from working with an exercise specialist.

Changing your lifestyle doesn't have to be sudden, expensive, or limiting/depriving.  Pick exercises/activities you enjoy or would like to try.  Start slow.  Shoot for 150 minutes of moderate exercise per week.  Examples of moderate exercise is brisk walking, dancing, and gardening.  Your heart rate increases but you can still talk comfortably while doing the activity.  Break it up into 30-minute bouts throughout the week.  If that still seems like too much, break it down further to three 10-minute bouts throughout each day that you exercise (preferably most days of the week).  As for food, gradually replace less nutritious foods such as candy, soda-pop, pizza, fatty meats, highly processed foods, and simple carbs with healthier choices such as fruits and vegetables, lean protein, nuts, low/no-fat items, and whole grains.  You can still enjoy your favorite less healthy foods; just eat them occasionally instead of all the time.  If you are trying to gain weight, consult with a registered dietitian or health care provider.  If you are a parent and suspect that your child has an eating disorder, it's very important that you contact your child's physician for advice.

So, yes, be satisfied with yourself, your habits, your job, your surroundings and so on if they are truly fulfilling.  But don't be afraid to change if you feel as if you are stuck in a rut, bored or going down an unhealthy path.  Do what feels right in your gut.

Do you prefer to stay where you are or are you ready for a change?  Let me know via email or in the comments below.  Thanks!  Have a great weekend!