On the Inside

I heard this song by Daughtry on my Ipod today while working out at the gym.  It got me thinking. 

Nearly seven years ago I left the area where I grew up (Upstate New York--waaay upstate) to move to southern Utah.  I made the move with my husband, our cat (who passed away shortly after her arrival out west) and parrot after years of just not feeling right in my own skin.  Although I had family ties there, I hated the winters.  I refused to drive in winter and didn't care much for it the rest of the year either.  I'd never been a confident driver.  I didn't like to get out and about in the snow and ice; I don't ski or skate or snowboard.  Winter was just a long, miserable season for me.  When Jim got hurt in a fall (See, Flying Safety:  Remember to Move!) it was bone chilling cold outside.  Three feet of newly fallen soft snow around him and he had to land on the concrete walkway in front of our house.  When he was discharged from the hospital we stayed with my mom on the family farm.  The wind whips through there like crazy.  One day when we got back from taking Jim for a check up, the car got stuck in the driveway and wouldn't budge.  My mom helped Jim to the house about, say, 20 feet from the car.  I stayed behind and waited for her to come back to help me inside. I stood hip-deep in snow (well, that's not that high--I'm only 4'8"--but it was bad enough) waiting for her to come back and help me.  I could feel my face freezing.  The wind was blowing so hard, I nearly fell over.  Right then and there I told myself I was getting the heck out of snow country.  Somehow, some way, I'd leave this place I'd called home for most of my life. 

It was too limiting.  I was afraid to walk around in the snow and ice since my balance wasn't the greatest.  I'd taken more tumbles than I could count.  Luckily I hadn't gotten badly hurt, but as I got older, I feared that I'd start breaking bones.  But it wasn't just the snow. Every other season of the year bothered me as well.  Bug season, mud season, sticky yucky humid summer season. I got literally ill each summer from the humidity.  I also have rosacea which hated the climate in New York.  Wind, rain, frosty air,  humidity--it didn't matter.  My skin was generally unhappy. I couldn't take it anymore. 

I had always been close to my mom, and there was a time when I thought I'd never leave.  She protected me--admittedly probably too much, but I couldn't fault her for caring.  I'd spent my life dealing with spina bifida, balance issues, self-esteem issues, surgeries, shyness, and dependence.  But it was time to grow up--way past time to do so, in fact.  My insides were telling me to leave.  I needed a change, big time.

After quite a bit of research, we ended up in southern Utah.  I'd never lived that far from where I grew up, but I was ready.  The minute I set foot in southern Utah, I felt at home.  I felt safe.  I absolutely loved the beautiful desert landscape, the warm tempertures, and sunshine.  Yes, it was hot, but it was dry.  That made all the difference.  I loved it!  

There were cultural differences, for sure, but we've met some of the nicest people here.  Feeling safe was so important.  

The first order of business was to get used to driving in the city.  It's not a huge city, but it's much bigger than I'd ever driven in.  At least I didn't have to worry about driving in snow.  That was a significant perk. Jim gave me lessons, mostly on quiet Sunday mornings when the city streets were deserted, and slowly I learned to feel fairly comfortable driving.  That was such a rush!  Back in New York, I'd had either my mom or my husband drive me most places even in small towns, and here I was in a city of about 70,000 people, driving all over town.  

The next order of business was getting into shape.  I was pushing 50 at the time and feeling blah.  Overweight, not obese.  But still, I didn't feel good.  I didn't have a lot of energy.  I found out that there was a gym right down the street from our apartment and it was affordable.  I'd imagined gyms being really expensive, so when I found out otherwise, I had my mind set on joining.  

I felt weird going for my first meeting at the gym, but it was one of the best decisions I made.  The staff and trainers were supportive, upbeat, and welcoming.  The place was energizing and I got in the best shape of my life.  I'd never have joined a gym in New York. 

Moving to Utah changed me for the better.  I'm healthier, happier, have wonderful friends, and have gotten involved in community.  Utah is home.  So, yes, some people run away from their old lives only to find out that they are still the same on the inside and their problems have followed them.  But, I can say that honestly didn't happen to me.  I'm better on the inside and outside for making the move.

You have to go with your gut when making major decisions like this.  Think it through.  If you need to make a change, find a way to do it.  If you're not happy with your weight, how you look or feel, your energy level, do what you have to to make the change to a healthier lifestyle.  You don't necessarily need to make  a big move like I (and my husband) did.  Do what feels right.  Think it out.  Talk with your family.  Review your options.  Make the decision that works for you.  

Here is a link to the Daughtry song that inspired this blog post.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aEjfWhyz-qg

Choosing a Different Life vs. Being Satisfied and How it Relates to Fitness

I saw the quote above the other day.  On the whole, it makes sense.  We tend to get stressed out about work, school, money, our bodies, health, being in style and so on, sometimes to the point of sickness.  We are so busy we often don't have time for friends, family, downtime.  It's not worth all that.  In that case, I say, yes chill out.  Tone down the stress level a bit by finding a balance, seeing where you can make little changes, and slicing some "fat" out of your day to make it more manageable.  

Choosing a different life vs. being satisfied with what you have.  

Different Life:  On the plus side, a different life or lifestyle can recharge your batteries.  It also can present new and exciting challenges and experiences.  You may be able to meet new people, be introduced to cultures different from your own, and learn something new.  All good things, for sure.  But there's a minus side too.  If you decide to pick up stakes, move far away, and start over, it could cost you a dear sum of money as well as heartache and headaches when you have to say goodbye to close friends and family and everything familiar.  It can also be intimidating, moving to a new town, starting a new job, making new friends.  And lonely, too, as you struggle to make those friends in your new surroundings while realizing as time goes by that you've become distant in more ways than one with the folks back home.  You're on the outside looking in in both places.  That can be scary, too.

Being Satisfied:  The good thing about being satisfied is that you don't have to deal with all the upheaval that comes with change.  It's comfortable, safe.  It's sometimes easier to settle.  It also forces you to appreciate what you have and enjoy the simple life.  But being satisfied can also be limiting.  You may live your life in your little corner of the world, sheltered from anything different or challenging, missing out on what's going on "out there."  You may run the risk of becoming stagnant, unfulfilled, bored.

How  it relates to fitness

Is being satisfied with your current fitness level really healthy? If you're obese or overweight you could be increasing your risk for developing health problems such as coronary heart disease, type 2 diabetes and stroke. If you're underweight you also could be at risk for certain health problems such as anemia, compromised immunity, and osteoporosis.  Is it worth the risk just to stay where you are?  Wouldn't it be better to tackle the hard but rewarding work that's involved in living fit and healthy?  Only you can answer that.

A different lifestyle could be just what you need to improve your health and mood.  So, while you shouldn't degrade yourself for being overweight/obese or underweight, you really need to evaluate how your current life is and if you're happy and healthy that way.  If not, then you need to take steps to change, including getting a complete physical exam and nutrition consultation a from qualified professionals.  You may also ask your doctor for exercise recommendations, any limitations you need to be aware of, and if you could benefit from working with an exercise specialist.

Changing your lifestyle doesn't have to be sudden, expensive, or limiting/depriving.  Pick exercises/activities you enjoy or would like to try.  Start slow.  Shoot for 150 minutes of moderate exercise per week.  Examples of moderate exercise is brisk walking, dancing, and gardening.  Your heart rate increases but you can still talk comfortably while doing the activity.  Break it up into 30-minute bouts throughout the week.  If that still seems like too much, break it down further to three 10-minute bouts throughout each day that you exercise (preferably most days of the week).  As for food, gradually replace less nutritious foods such as candy, soda-pop, pizza, fatty meats, highly processed foods, and simple carbs with healthier choices such as fruits and vegetables, lean protein, nuts, low/no-fat items, and whole grains.  You can still enjoy your favorite less healthy foods; just eat them occasionally instead of all the time.  If you are trying to gain weight, consult with a registered dietitian or health care provider.  If you are a parent and suspect that your child has an eating disorder, it's very important that you contact your child's physician for advice.

So, yes, be satisfied with yourself, your habits, your job, your surroundings and so on if they are truly fulfilling.  But don't be afraid to change if you feel as if you are stuck in a rut, bored or going down an unhealthy path.  Do what feels right in your gut.

Do you prefer to stay where you are or are you ready for a change?  Let me know via email or in the comments below.  Thanks!  Have a great weekend!

Let Fitness Help You Cope with Crises

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Hey there.  I hope you're having a good week.  I want to talk about coping with crises today.  Whether you're dealing with job loss, a death in the family, a divorce, a chronic illness, or lots of little nit-picky nuisances, fitness can help. 

Sure, you'll need some down time to deal with whatever troubles are going on in your life, but try to get back into some sort of healthy sleep, exercise and eating routine as soon as you can.  They can provide a combination of much needed rest, stress relief and healthy nutrition that you body and mind will need to get through the tough times ahead.

Schedule exercise, sleep, and nutritious meals just like you would work, job interviews, school, meetings with lawyers or doctors, and other responsibilities, depending on your particular situation.  Pace yourself.  Find a routine that works for you and stick with it. 

Seek out help from those you are close to in the fitness community as well as medical professionals, friends, family and neighbors.  You'll need that support unit to bounce ideas off of, talk things out with, seek trusted professional information from, and receive comfort and security from during this time.  Don't be afraid to reach out.  There are many people available and willing to help.  Let them.  For example, if a friend asks you to go for a walk or run with her, try it.  Just a short one at first.  No one expects you to jump into a marathon at a time like this.  Just get out, get some fresh air, decompress a bit.  In some cases, having an ambitious goal can help, though.  So maybe you'd benefit from training for a marathon.  Everyone handles crises differently.  Go with your gut.  You'll know what's right for you. 

Has fitness helped you get through a difficult situation in your life?  Please share your experiences with me (whatever you feel comfortable sharing) either via email (iwrite41@yahoo.com) or in the comments below.  I'm looking forward to hearing from you.  Take  care.

Ease into a Healthy Lifestyle

Life is a balancing act

Happy Friday everyone!  I hope you have plans to stay active this weekend.  Or maybe you still aren't convinced that an active, healthy lifestyle is doable in your situation.

You hear all these stories about people living at the gym, making fitness a lifestyle.  Meanwhile, you're swamped with responsibilities, managing health issues, working long hours, taking care of your family, and so on.  When will you ever fit in a workout?  How can you possibly afford healthy food?

Sound familiar?  Well, it doesn't have to be like that.  You don't have to live at the gym.  You don't even have go to a gym.  You can work out at home, outside, with a friend, on your own, in a group, or, yes, at the gym.  Pick something fun.  Walk the dog, garden, play tag with the kids, swim, job, hike, bike, play tennis.  Whatever activity you enjoy doing or would like to take a crack at, do it.  It doesn't have to cost a cent.  It just depends on what you want to do.  

Give yourself 30 minutes a day to exercise.  That's the equivalent of one sit-com.  If you can give up one sitcom a day (or record it to watch later), you will have enough time to get your workout in.  If that still seems too hard, break your exercise up into three 10-minute bouts throughout the day.  Take a walk outside or down the hall, walk up and down the stairs a few times, do some stretches or jumping jacks.  Anything to get your blood flowing and your heart pumping.  That doesn't sound so hard, does it?

It just takes a little effort to get into the groove; make exercise a habit.  Make a point to include little bouts of exercise each day.  Set a timer or enter a reminder on your phone or daily planner.  Do whatever works to help you make exercise a habit.  Over time, you may very well notice that you have more energy, feel better, sleep better, and many other benefits, and that can help motivate you to keep exercising.

Same goes for the lifestyle change.  It doesn't have to happen overnight.  Make a couple changes here and there.  If you smoke, attempt to quit.  If you have trouble doing it on your own, seek out help from your doctor or a support group.  If you drink alcohol on a regular basis, try cutting out one drink per week at first.  If you're a night owl, try going to bed a half hour early one night a week.  If the thought of eating vegetables makes you turn green, start slowly.  Just add one new veggie and see how it goes.  Find fun ways to prepare it online.  Do that with fruits, lean meats, whole grains and healthier fats as well.  Look for sales on healthy items.  Cut back on designer coffees and junk food, putting that money toward healthier food items.  Ease into it.  Experiment with different recipes.  Make it fun.  If you find that you don't like fish, try turkey.  If you don't like one vegetable, try another.  There are oodles of them out there to choose from.  Add herbs and spices to jazz up these new foods instead of loading them with fat, salt and sugar. 

Working out and adopting a healthy lifestyle don't have to be difficult.  Take your time.  Adopt a positive attitude.  Be patient.  Think of it as an adventure.  You'll get there.

How to Stay Healthy at the Gym

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Hi all!  I hope you had a great weekend, including lots of physical activity.  This flu season has gotten me thinking of staying healthy at the gym.  No matter how fun, friendly and invigorating the gym may be, there are also a lot of germs hanging around there, too.  Here are some tips on staying healthy through flu season and beyond.

1.  Ask gym management even before you join what their cleaning procedure is:  how often the equipment, bathrooms, pool, and so on, are cleaned and what products are used.

2.  Wash your hands often.  Not only should you wash your hands after using the restroom, but also make it a point to wash them periodically during rest breaks and following your workout.

3.  Clean equipment before and after you use it.  Many gyms provide cleansing spray or you could also bring your own sanitary wipes.  You can also bring a towel to use specifically for wiping down machines.

4.  Get enough sleep.  A good sleep schedule can help keep your immune system strong.  The amount of sleep needed varies, but generally between 6 and 8 hours will help to keep you refreshed, alert and healthy in and out of the gym.  

5.  Wear clean clothes to the gym.  Shower and change into another clean set of clothes after your workout.  Bring bags to keep clean and dirty clothes separate.

6. Wear swim shoes in the shower at the gym to avoid germs that can cause Athlete's Foot and other infections.  Flip flops are okay, too, but my husband slipped on his and cracked a couple of ribs, so I tend to be wary of recommending them.  Also, keep your feet covered during exercise, too.  The floors may look clean, but could be crawling with germs.

7.  Bring your own mat for floor exercises.  Although gyms often provide mats, that doesn't mean they are clean.  Be safe by providing your own and clean it regularly with soap and water.  Dry it completely before use.

8.  Bring a water bottle instead of using the water fountain.  You never know whose lips have touched the spout.

9.  Bring a towel to wipe down your face when it gets all sweaty.  This can help reduce the amount of sweat that drips onto the equipment.

10.  Keep on exercising as it can help boost your immunity.  When I exercise regularly, I hardly ever get sick.  Don't push too hard, though.  Overdoing exercise can compromise your immune system.  Find a happy medium that both challenges you and keeps you healthy.  

Comments are always welcome.  Leave them below or email them to me.  Thanks.  Have a great week!