Let Fitness Help You Cope with Crises

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Hey there.  I hope you're having a good week.  I want to talk about coping with crises today.  Whether you're dealing with job loss, a death in the family, a divorce, a chronic illness, or lots of little nit-picky nuisances, fitness can help. 

Sure, you'll need some down time to deal with whatever troubles are going on in your life, but try to get back into some sort of healthy sleep, exercise and eating routine as soon as you can.  They can provide a combination of much needed rest, stress relief and healthy nutrition that you body and mind will need to get through the tough times ahead.

Schedule exercise, sleep, and nutritious meals just like you would work, job interviews, school, meetings with lawyers or doctors, and other responsibilities, depending on your particular situation.  Pace yourself.  Find a routine that works for you and stick with it. 

Seek out help from those you are close to in the fitness community as well as medical professionals, friends, family and neighbors.  You'll need that support unit to bounce ideas off of, talk things out with, seek trusted professional information from, and receive comfort and security from during this time.  Don't be afraid to reach out.  There are many people available and willing to help.  Let them.  For example, if a friend asks you to go for a walk or run with her, try it.  Just a short one at first.  No one expects you to jump into a marathon at a time like this.  Just get out, get some fresh air, decompress a bit.  In some cases, having an ambitious goal can help, though.  So maybe you'd benefit from training for a marathon.  Everyone handles crises differently.  Go with your gut.  You'll know what's right for you. 

Has fitness helped you get through a difficult situation in your life?  Please share your experiences with me (whatever you feel comfortable sharing) either via email (iwrite41@yahoo.com) or in the comments below.  I'm looking forward to hearing from you.  Take  care.

About Trainers

Hi all.  After my workout with my current trainer yesterday I got to thinking about all the trainers I've had over the past 7 years.  

The first one was perfect for me.  Tough but flexible.  I have a long medical history (spina bifida) and I needed a trainer who would make me work hard, but within my abilities.  He was spot on.   I actually cried when he said he was leaving after about a year and a half of working with him.  I still talk to him occasionally at the gym when he's there to work out.  My next trainer was totally opposite.  He treated me like I was fragile.  I'm NOT fragile.  I may have certain limitations as far as flexibility and balance go, but that doesn't mean trainers aren't able to kick my butt.  I hardly even broke a sweat when I worked with him.  Huge disappointment.  I only worked with him a short time before I switched again.  He wasn't too happy, but I didn't care.  I was paying for personal training, not to be treated like a cripple.

Well, the next trainer was, again, the total opposite.  He kicked my butt but good and I loved it.  I had a good sweat going within the first 2 minutes of the session!  I loved working with him.  It was when I was training with him that I decided to get my personal training certification.  He took time to quiz me on various topics, which I appreciated, even if some of those quizzes  took place while he was kicking my butt during our sessions.  Seriously, I had a blast.  And I passed my exam, too.  :-)  That's got to be one of the biggest thrills of my life.  I was bummed when I found out this trainer, too, was leaving.  

All the trainers after that were okay, but just not quite right.  They either worked me too easy, didn't show up on time or at all, or seemed more interested in training athletes.  They were professional and kind, no question.  But they didn't seem to be as into the sessions.  Or I just didn't feel as comfortable with them, except maybe one who used to count my reps in Chinese.  He was tough, fair, and funny.  A good combination.  

One trainer was okay, pleasant, and tough, but seemed to key on athletes.  He left after training me a short time. I've seen him now and then, but we haven't spoken. Ah well.  It's no big deal.  I just didn't click with him as much as I did with others.

Anyway, I decided to call it quits at the gym in September 2012.  I wasn't getting anywhere, I wasn't satisfied with the training, I was still stewing over my workout folder with two year's worth of workouts disappearing, I had endless contract and double-billing problems, I had hit menopause a couple years earlier and my mind and body were not anywhere near in sync.  I had no will power, no energy..I was tired of working out.  And I admit that I was none too pleased that I had applied for a trainer position three times and hadn't gotten so much as an interview, yet new trainers came and went all the time. (When I went in one day to update my application, the new training manager found it at the bottom of the pile.  Well, at least they hadn't pitched it.  The former management was supportive of me and encouraged me to apply, but there was a management change at the same time I first applied.) 

I got equipment so I could work out at home.  But there wasn't enough space, the room temperature was too difficult to control, and I missed the energy of the gym.  I had gained back weight, had intense cravings, and was scared that if I didn't do something soon, I'd weigh more than I did the first time I started working out 7 years before--and be on a very bad path heading into my fifties.  

So, after about a year and a half away, I went back--to the same gym.  As miffed as I was over some issues, I still liked the convenient location, the set up, and the price.  It was doable.  I had a talk with the management about the fact that if I experienced anymore BS, I was out the door and would never come back, no matter how convenient and economical the gym was.  They have been nothing but courteous and professional towards me.  So far, so good.  I like my current trainer.  He says hello to me each time I go to the gym and asks me about my workouts whether we have a session that day or not. He was understanding from the beginning that I wanted to take it easy.  I especially was nervous since I had hurt my shoulder recently (for the third time, at least). How I hurt it this time, I didn't know.  Well, after one session of mostly physical-therapy-type exercises on my shoulders, I had no pain whatsoever.  Yep, he's a keeper!  I'm feeling stronger every day, and upping weight consistently now that I've got my confidence back.  And I'm working out 4-5 days a week again.  I'm loving it.  

All these trainers have helped shape me as a trainer.  I've learned from each of they what to do and what not to do.  I make clients work, but I'm sensitive to their health issues and exercise 
preferences.  I'm down to earth, no ego, no attitude.  I'm in business to help people feel better, healthier, fitter.  And, of course, I'm all for helping to make fitness fun.  

When looking into working with a trainer, decide what type of personality with jive best with yours, whether you want to work with a male or female, which trainer can best work around your schedule, and who can help you best toward your goals.  It's a good idea to work with one trainer for a bit, then switch to another, and another until you find the one you feel most comfortable with.  You're paying good money for personal training.  You are the boss.  You need to feel you're getting your money's worth. 

I'd love to hear your feedback.  What type of trainer do you like the most?  Or do you prefer to work out alone or with friends?  Feel free to email me at iwrite41@yahoo.com, or leave a comment below.  Also, to get email notices when a new post is published, enter your email in the space provided and click Submit.  Thanks!  Hope to hear from you.  Take care.
   

Back In the Swing of Things

Hey there!  I'm excited to announce that I'll fully back into the swing of things.  I'm loving working with my new trainer.  I'm learning a lot from him.  He's helped inspire me to get back into fitness big time.  I now go to the gym 4-5 times a week.  Whoo hoo!  I'm excited about fitness again.  This is Week 3 and I'm already feeling stronger and more stable on my feet again.  

With this renewed love for fitness also comes challenges:

• Where do I fit in work, social time with friends, family time, play time with our cats, and volunteering?
• What time is best to go to the gym in order to stay motivated and not make excuses that I have other things to do?

I have so many interests, so many irons in the fire, that it's hard to stay organized sometimes.  I'm sure many of you can relate.  But there's nothing more important than health and fitness.  Without it, I don't have the energy to do the other things I love to do.  I'm moody, sad, frustrated, and worried, instead of concentrating on the positive and enjoying life.  So, fitness had to come to the front of the line.

I'm working on a schedule that's right for me.  It may take many revisions to get it just right, but I'm on my way.  

Have you recently recommitted to fitness?  What's worked so far?  What difficulties have you faced?  Please share your stories with me via email (iwrite41@yahoo.com) or in the comment section below.  I'd love to hear from you.  You can also subscribe to my blog by entering your email address in the space provided  to the right.  

Until next time, find a way to make fitness fun!  Take care.

Ease into a Healthy Lifestyle

Life is a balancing act

Happy Friday everyone!  I hope you have plans to stay active this weekend.  Or maybe you still aren't convinced that an active, healthy lifestyle is doable in your situation.

You hear all these stories about people living at the gym, making fitness a lifestyle.  Meanwhile, you're swamped with responsibilities, managing health issues, working long hours, taking care of your family, and so on.  When will you ever fit in a workout?  How can you possibly afford healthy food?

Sound familiar?  Well, it doesn't have to be like that.  You don't have to live at the gym.  You don't even have go to a gym.  You can work out at home, outside, with a friend, on your own, in a group, or, yes, at the gym.  Pick something fun.  Walk the dog, garden, play tag with the kids, swim, job, hike, bike, play tennis.  Whatever activity you enjoy doing or would like to take a crack at, do it.  It doesn't have to cost a cent.  It just depends on what you want to do.  

Give yourself 30 minutes a day to exercise.  That's the equivalent of one sit-com.  If you can give up one sitcom a day (or record it to watch later), you will have enough time to get your workout in.  If that still seems too hard, break your exercise up into three 10-minute bouts throughout the day.  Take a walk outside or down the hall, walk up and down the stairs a few times, do some stretches or jumping jacks.  Anything to get your blood flowing and your heart pumping.  That doesn't sound so hard, does it?

It just takes a little effort to get into the groove; make exercise a habit.  Make a point to include little bouts of exercise each day.  Set a timer or enter a reminder on your phone or daily planner.  Do whatever works to help you make exercise a habit.  Over time, you may very well notice that you have more energy, feel better, sleep better, and many other benefits, and that can help motivate you to keep exercising.

Same goes for the lifestyle change.  It doesn't have to happen overnight.  Make a couple changes here and there.  If you smoke, attempt to quit.  If you have trouble doing it on your own, seek out help from your doctor or a support group.  If you drink alcohol on a regular basis, try cutting out one drink per week at first.  If you're a night owl, try going to bed a half hour early one night a week.  If the thought of eating vegetables makes you turn green, start slowly.  Just add one new veggie and see how it goes.  Find fun ways to prepare it online.  Do that with fruits, lean meats, whole grains and healthier fats as well.  Look for sales on healthy items.  Cut back on designer coffees and junk food, putting that money toward healthier food items.  Ease into it.  Experiment with different recipes.  Make it fun.  If you find that you don't like fish, try turkey.  If you don't like one vegetable, try another.  There are oodles of them out there to choose from.  Add herbs and spices to jazz up these new foods instead of loading them with fat, salt and sugar. 

Working out and adopting a healthy lifestyle don't have to be difficult.  Take your time.  Adopt a positive attitude.  Be patient.  Think of it as an adventure.  You'll get there.

Keeping Up with Your Exercise During Wintry Weather

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Hey there, folks.  I hope you had a good weekend.  Lots of places are snowy right now, so it might be hard for you to get out and about to exercise.  But you can make a snowman or snow fort, have a snowball fight and the like to burn calories.  Once the roads clear out, or even beforehand if you have some land, you can go skiing, skating, snowshoeing, and sledding right out the back door.  

Where I live is sunny and quite mild in comparison to the areas of the country being hit by snowstorms, so my husband and I did some yard work over the weekend.  We put some muscle into trimming trees and bushes for a few hours in the afternoon.  It felt so nice to be out in the fresh air.  It was still a bit chilly, but we worked up a bit of a sweat during the clean up.  

I'm anxious for the days to get even longer so we can go for walks later in the day.  By the time we finish work, there isn't much daylight left, and I don't like to walk in the dark.  Especially not when it's chilly.

Whatever the climate or weather conditions, find something active to do.  Don't wait for the perfect conditions for a particular activity like running, walking, skiing or snowboarding.  Do something else in the meantime instead of hanging out on the couch watching TV.   If you're snowed in, walk in place, use the treadmill that's gathering dust in the basement, dance around the house, play charades...anything that gets your heart pumping.  If you can safely navigate the roads, hit the slopes, hiking trails, or the gym.  The important things is to keep moving, while also staying safe.

Take care out there!  Feel free to sign up for email updates and also visit my website Making Fitness Fun for all sorts of information on fitness.  Have fun!

How to Stay Healthy at the Gym

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Hi all!  I hope you had a great weekend, including lots of physical activity.  This flu season has gotten me thinking of staying healthy at the gym.  No matter how fun, friendly and invigorating the gym may be, there are also a lot of germs hanging around there, too.  Here are some tips on staying healthy through flu season and beyond.

1.  Ask gym management even before you join what their cleaning procedure is:  how often the equipment, bathrooms, pool, and so on, are cleaned and what products are used.

2.  Wash your hands often.  Not only should you wash your hands after using the restroom, but also make it a point to wash them periodically during rest breaks and following your workout.

3.  Clean equipment before and after you use it.  Many gyms provide cleansing spray or you could also bring your own sanitary wipes.  You can also bring a towel to use specifically for wiping down machines.

4.  Get enough sleep.  A good sleep schedule can help keep your immune system strong.  The amount of sleep needed varies, but generally between 6 and 8 hours will help to keep you refreshed, alert and healthy in and out of the gym.  

5.  Wear clean clothes to the gym.  Shower and change into another clean set of clothes after your workout.  Bring bags to keep clean and dirty clothes separate.

6. Wear swim shoes in the shower at the gym to avoid germs that can cause Athlete's Foot and other infections.  Flip flops are okay, too, but my husband slipped on his and cracked a couple of ribs, so I tend to be wary of recommending them.  Also, keep your feet covered during exercise, too.  The floors may look clean, but could be crawling with germs.

7.  Bring your own mat for floor exercises.  Although gyms often provide mats, that doesn't mean they are clean.  Be safe by providing your own and clean it regularly with soap and water.  Dry it completely before use.

8.  Bring a water bottle instead of using the water fountain.  You never know whose lips have touched the spout.

9.  Bring a towel to wipe down your face when it gets all sweaty.  This can help reduce the amount of sweat that drips onto the equipment.

10.  Keep on exercising as it can help boost your immunity.  When I exercise regularly, I hardly ever get sick.  Don't push too hard, though.  Overdoing exercise can compromise your immune system.  Find a happy medium that both challenges you and keeps you healthy.  

Comments are always welcome.  Leave them below or email them to me.  Thanks.  Have a great week!

 

Happy New Year!

I hope you all had a great time over the holidays.  I also hope you were able to keep the weight gain to a minimum.  

For me, the holidays were crazy busy.  Lots of fun getting together with friends, spending time with my husband and our fur-babies, and volunteering.  I also spent a lot of time eating.  Since menopause kicked in several years ago, my mouth has not listened to sense.  No matter what the trainer in me thought, I just kept shoveling in food.  I've also had little energy for exercise, especially the last couple months of 2013.  

What's the deal?!  Here I am a trainer and I'm stuffing my face, and exercise is no longer a passion.  Menopause is a bear, let me tell you.  It throws all your senses out the window.  I've struggled the last few years and regained a good portion of what I'd lost between 2007-2009.  I'm thankful I'd lost those 25 pounds before I hit menopause big time.  Otherwise I'd weigh considerably more now.  

But there is good news.  I don't know if menopause is waning or I'm just becoming stronger in my ability to fight the cravings, but I've started 2014 with the determination to lose weight, be more active, and live healthier.  It's as if on January 2 a switch was flipped.  I have a totally new outlook on life.  I've recommitted to exercise, working out most days of the week again.  I've also cut out junk food.  Maybe it's because I'm turning 50 soon.  It seems as if 50 is the wake up call of ages.  Although I don't consider 50 old, the older we get, the higher the risk for health problems.  And I don't want being a bit chunky to cause those health issue to crop up.     

I've always eaten quite healthily (I grew up on a farm and my mom grew a huge vegetable garden, plus we had fruit trees, so we always had lots of nutritious foods to eat and I've continued eating in that way through adulthood), but the snacks get me.  Chocolate, and Hershey bars in particular, is a huge weakness.  I could go without pretty much anything else when it comes to snacks, but if chocolate is in the house, I find it, and devour it.  It's crazy!  It doesn't help that my husband has a sweet tooth but can pace himself.  He can save sweets for weeks.  They're sitting there staring me in the face, or hidden on a high shelf--either way, I know they are there. 

Having a treat now and then is fine, so I don't expect to ban chocolate from my diet, but I'm taking a break from it for a couple weeks to get my system back in order and my head on straight.  I intend to treat myself to a bit of my favorites next weekend though.  That's when I turn 50 and, while I'll eat sensibly for the most part, I'm not missing out on my chance to have chocolate and maybe a frozen yogurt sundae.  I'd much rather have that than cake.  But then on the 13th, I'll be back to eating healthy again.  

If you've been waiting for a good time to start getting fit, it's now.  If you've been into fitness in the past but have fallen off track, get back on it now.  Join me in a commitment to fitness in 2014 and beyond.  Let me know what you plan to do in this New Year to live a fitter, healthier life.  Take baby steps and build up to more aggressive workout and meal plans over time.  You've got to start somewhere and it all counts.  And remember, make it fun!  Email me at iwrite41@yahoo.com or comment below.  Here's to a healthy, fit, and happy New Year!  Take care.